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Use the name + question loop

Use someone’s name once, then ask one specific follow-up question.

Situation

Networking, parties, first meetings, and casual social situations.

Action steps

  1. Listen for their name.
  2. Repeat it naturally once.
  3. Ask one specific follow-up question.
  4. Let them talk first.

Why it works

People respond well to attention and specificity.

When not to use it

Do not overuse their name.